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~Off to High School~

Alyssa's 8th grade Graduation
Chipman Jr. High
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~Easter 2009~

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We dyed Easter eggs, went to church, took some pictures, and spent the day with family.  We couldn't ask for more especially since Kalem was with us also this easter.
 

~Update on my dad~

Plea Bargain Accepted
for the assault against my dad
 
Finally, after many continuances, the kid who brutally attacked my father accepted the plea bargain offered by the prosecuting attorney.  As most of you know, the 1 year anniversary of my dad's attack is nearing on April 13th.  My dad almost lost his life due to the selfless acts of a twisted 22year old.  We thought the case was going to go to trial and then to our surprise he accepted the plea bargain.  So, here it is.....40 yr sentence, 30 suspended, 1year already served, 1-1/2 years off for 1st offense, so basically 7-1/2 more years to serve.  Probation for the rest of his life, meaning any other mess ups then he will get that 30 years that was suspended.  Restitution payable to my dad in the amount of $100,000 in payments monthly after he serves his sentence. 
 
So, I am happy with this as long as my dad is and he seems content.  Almost everyone is certain that this kid will do something to mess up again and serve a longer sentence.  As for now, we are all eternally grateful that my father survived this mess and even though his quality of life will never be the same, he has overcome so much and will try his best to enjoy the life he has.  One thing for sure is that my dad is a survivor and the strength he has is astonishing. He loves life and his family and he too is glad to be here.  LOVE YOU DAD!!!!!!!!
 
 

~A new addition~

Welcome
Owen Matthew Phelps
1/15/2009
 
Proud Parents;  Josh & Stacy Phelps
 
 

~Lex goes to camp~

Camp Keep for 6th graders
1/26-1/30/2009
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~Welcome 2009~

Happy New Year
2009
 
 

~Happy 12th b-day Lex~

Happy Birthday Lexi
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This year Alexis decided to have some friends spend the night and she got to pick a restaurant to take her friends to.  She decided on Famous Dave's because she loves barbeque!  We then brought her friends back to our house and had cake and ice cream.  Family came over then to join us in celebrating the big day.  Lex and her friends then watched movies and had a sleepover.  Happy 12th Lex......We love you :)
 
 
 

~Happy Halloween~

Happy Halloween
~2008~
 
 
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So.....we have a monkey, a policewoman, a Redskins football player, a somewhat Frankenstein, and Sharpay of High School Musical!  Such a variety:)

~Disney-Florida Trip~

Disney World-Florida Trip
Island with a palm tree July 2008 Airplane
 
001_1003_3008_8009_9013_13015_15022_22031_31032_32039_39041_41052_52058_58059_59066_66091_91This is Melissa, one of my best friend's.  We have been friends for about 7 years and have kept in touch through all the years.  We met when I lived in Fort Bragg, North Carolina.  We were on a dance team together for the local hockey team (equiv. to the Condors).  Alot has happened through the years, she has two adorable kids named Austin & Abby.  We decided that after not seeing each other for 5 years, that I should come for a visit!  Brylan and I headed to florida on July 29th, and stayed there for about 6 days.  We went to Disney, and to the beach.  Brylan loved playing with Austin & Abby and they all got along really well.  We then headed to Virginia for about 10 days to visit my family and pick up the girls.  It was a great way to end the summer and I am so glad that my break from school was spent so well :)

~Happy 33rd B-day to me~

002_2004_4007_7010_10012_12013_13014_14016_16017_17My 33rd Birthday was spent in the best possible way.....with my family in Virginia!  It has been 6 years since I got to be home for my birthday,  and I was so happy to be with my family.  Brylan and I headed to Florida first, which he went on his first trip to Disney World.  We then headed to Virginia to spend time with my family and to pick up the girls.  The girls spent most of the summer in Virginia, so I planned the trip so that they could fly back with me.  These pictures pretty much explain all of the fun we had and how happy it makes me to be with my family!  We went to dinner for my birthday, and then my sister and my cousins took me out for a night on the town.  I was more than thrilled to see my dad again also!  Can't wait to visit them againOpen-mouthed

~Lizzy"s B-day~

Happy 13th Birthday
Alyssa
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036_36037_37039_39041_41045_45046_46049_49050_50051_51053_53Alyssa spent her 13th birthday in Virginia this year.  My sister, Carrie, took her to the salon for a pedicure and then they took her to dinner at Chili's.  My parents, my sister, my cousin, and her dad and their grandma Linda came to the dinner.  She knew that some of the people were coming, but her dad being there was a surprise.  He is in one of the pictures with the girls above.  They had a great dinner and then she went back home to my mom's and had cake!  She had mixed feelings about not celebrating her birthday here in Cali, but she was so excited to get to spend a birthday with her family back East. So, Happy Birthday Lizzy!  You are turning into a fine young lady and I am so proud to be your mother!  These teenage years really scare me since there is no way to prepare for them!  It ought to be interesting with all 3 girls!  Wish me luckOpen-mouthed

~Beach Bums~

Pismo Beach
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The last time we went to Pismo was 5 years ago, shortly after we arrived in California.  During that first trip we were all told to get out of the water due to a shark sighting!  Lucky for us, no shark sightings this time. Actually, the girls were still away in Virginia for the summer, so we just took the boys for a couple days.  Much to our surprise it was very windy and chilli.  We had to buy long sleeved shirts while we were there!  Kalem loved boogie boarding as Brylan loved playing in the sand and running from the waves.  Overall, we had a nice family trip to the beach. Only thing missing was the girlsSmile

~Bry turns 3~

Brylan turns 3
Birthday cake7/6/08 Gift with a bow
 
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It's so hard to believe our little guy is already 3.  All I can say is that even though he is a handful, I am so proud to be his mommy.  Happy Birthday Bry!

~A Day at the Lake~

A Day at Lake Buena Vista
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We went to the lake with some friends for the day.  None of us had ever rode on jetskii's before, so we all took a try at it.  Brylan loved it, Kalem was a little scared, and I actually threw Scott off while I was driving !  It was alot of fun and the kids really had a great time : )

~Scott's 30~

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5/14/08
 
011Scott turned 30 on May 14th.  I was still out of town taking care of my dad, but he did have a dinner with his family at Chili's on his birthday.  When I got home, we planned an evening out with some friends and had dinner at BJ's.  Since it was his 30th, I wanted to share it with him as well.  Words can't express how excited I am that he is finally 30 since he has been teasing me for 2 years now!

~Mad & KK's B-day~

Madison & Kalem's 8th & 9th Birthday
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~Softball~

Bakersfield Bobby Sox
"The Diamond Girls"
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016017018020021Madison played her first season of Softball!  She knew nothing at first, then picked up everything very quickly.  It was definitely a change from soccer, but she wants to play baseball next season.  I guess softball wasn't exciting enough for her, she wants more action!

~Benefits for my dad~

chrissyjvdad singingjvsCampground Benefit & JV's Benefit
5/24 & 5/26
 
My father has such a strong support system that it's unbelieveable.  Word of his attack spread quickly through the community, and it wasn't long before a newspaper article was put out, and his friends were planning benefits to help with his extensive Medical bills. We had a website put together to explain what happened in order to help with the many calls we were recieving daily.  The website is listed below, and it has given friends and family somewhere to go as sort of a tribute to my father. 
 
Many people have asked, "Where is the kid who did this?" Well, I am happy to say that he is in jail after running for the first 10 days.  At his bond hearing, the judge denied bail.  There is an extensive trial ahead of us that will begin in July, but at least for now, this kid is off the streets. We have so much to be thankful for, but most of all, my father is alive and survived this awful attack.  I stayed with him until 5/25, and it broke my heart to leave him after almost losing him. The whole DelMonte family came together through this and we all were there for my father.  The reality is that although he has challenges to face, he is ok now and my Aunt Betty & Uncle Greg whom he is staying with are great.  My children needed me to come home, and my dad was well taken care of, so I decided to come home in time for Mad & Kalem's B-day's.  I have to commend my husband Scott for staying with all the kids in Bakersfield for 5 weeks, while I left to care for my father.  Please check out the pictures that show how loved my dad is!
 
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~Making Progress~

The Road to Recovery
April & May 2008
 
047049033036038043047051My dad is doing much better.  He spent the first two weeks in the hospital, and then moved to an acute rehab center to focus on physical, occupational, and speech therapy.  Just a few days ago, he was released and is now an outpatient at the rehab facility.  My dad had part of his skull removed to give his brain room to swell.  This procedure saved his life. In addition to his skull fracture, his right leg was broken in 2 places.  In October, my dad will have a titanium plate put over the gap in his skull.  Until then, he is required to wear a protective helmet to cover his skull.  My dad is doing extremely well considering the circumstances, but he still has to relearn to do many things.  This is where his extensive rehab comes in.

~Tragedy Strikes our Family~

Please Pray for my Dad who was Brutally Assualted
in his home on April 13th, 2008.
 
 
daddad2011016021025044I was on a plane to Virginia IMMEDIATELY following the phone call that my dad was in ICU fighting for his life.  I spent 5 weeks in Virginia by my dad's bedside.  Seeing him go through this was the hardest thing that I have ever done.  My father is a great person and an excellent father and I please ask for your prayers to help our family through this difficult time.  The following link is the website for my father.......... http://www.mnjgroup.com/help4kim.htm

~Easter~

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~Girls day out~

A Day with my Girls
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I decided to take a day off work so that I could spend one day during Spring Break with the girls.  Back in February, I started a new job and the girls have been very vocal about how they don't get to see me that much anymore.  It breaks my heart not to be home more, but with such a big family, I have to work more. We went to lunch, went to a movie (College Road Trip), and ended the afternoon by going shopping at the mall.  It was really nice to just relax and hang out with my daughters that are growing up way too fast.  It was an exciting day for all of us
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~Camping~

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002004005007008010012016019023The kids are on their Spring Break, so Scott was brave enough to take them camping.  Of course he enlisted the help of Uncle Justin.  I had to work, so I missed out on this one for the most part.  Brylan and I did stop by the campsite and visit for about an hour. They made a fire, made smores, popped popcorn and played horseshoes.  They all had a great time and just that one night proved to be a handful!  Everyone had fun though and that's all that matters:)

~Sports~

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Where do I start? 
 
Alyssa has been on 5 soccer teams during the 07-08 seasons!  Back in August, she started off with her club Team the Evolution, which Scott coached.  This is our first year doing club, and Alyssa wanted to take soccer to the next level, so we did.  Scott coached this team to the end of the regular season, but then things just weren't working out with that team.  She then decided to try out for a U-13 Brigade Coast League.  She made that club team and she fit in perfect.  That team made it to the State Cup which was in Lancaster this year.  They made it to the final 8 teams out of 120 teams statewide.  They did awesome and we were happy for them to make it that far.  She also played on a regular season AYSO team, and a Spring Select AYSO team.  She also made her Middle School soccer team which about 100 people tried out and she was one of the few 7th graders that made it.  Let's put it this way, this child LOVES soccer.  We would never make her play, she does all of this because of her love for the game.  She wants to take it all the way to College and we will be supporting her the whole way.  Alyssa just tried out for the U-14 Gunners Coast League and she will play on that club team for the 08-09 season. 
 
 
Alexis played soccer in the fall, and is in the Choir at school.  She was selected for the Pentathalon at school and has started practicing for that. She is also getting ready to start Gymnastics in a couple of weeks.
 
 
Madison also played soccer in the fall, but she also made the track team at Eissler.  She was the only 3rd grader that made the team.  She just had the regional meet last week and she did awesome.  Madison just started softball earlier this month and their opening day is the last weekend of this month.  She really likes it and it's great that she can have something of her own to  get her "individual" attention.
 
 
Kalem is going strong with Baseball.  He is by far the biggest kid on the team and an excellent batter.  He does awesome.  It took him a few seasons to get it down, but now he is a great asset to his team.
 
Scott is still going strong with his indoor soccer team.  He has games every Saturday evening.  Occasionally he will play in a tournament, like the last one which was a 30 and over team!  Boy was that a reality check!  I can't wait until he turns 30 so that I can tease him like he does me!  Scott also plays basketball on Thursdays nights up at the church with his brothers. 
 
 
034048029013036038041 Bottom line is that everyone is doing well, and obviously with running them all around, I don't have any time for sports myself.  I can't say that it bothers me either:)
 
 

~Fun Times in VA~

Fun in Virginia
1/23/08-1/28/08009010020026028029044048058079083087098Alexis and Brylan traveled with me this time on a visit to Virginia.  Brylan loved being on the plane this time.  As usual we had a great time visiting with family.  Alexis even got to play in the little bit of snow left from the previous storm.  My parents had not seen Brylan in 6 months, so they were thrilled to see just how big he is getting.  We miss everyone already and can't wait to go back again in June:)